Mostrando postagens com marcador e-mails falsos. Mostrar todas as postagens
Mostrando postagens com marcador e-mails falsos. Mostrar todas as postagens

quarta-feira, 23 de setembro de 2009

Eles ainda me perseguem...

Mais um para entrar na nossa listinha, amigos.
Este aí é de wesley biggs (wesleybiggs@123debsy.com):

Dear Au Pair,We are very excited that you are thinking about coming to England to look after our kids. they are very happy kids. You must have experience of looking after a young boy and the maturity that comes with it. Though we are easy going, we like things done properly. To be happy here, you must be independent and have an open mind.We will enjoy sharing our life with you as long as you talk to us.We would like an open relationship so, this role should not be viewed as a job but more an exchange with some responsibilities (hopefully a friendship). In addition,including shopping, and help around the house as needed. Lucas go to school 5 days a week. Isaac will likely go to a social group 2 days a week. We are a hard working, fun family living just a few miles from London. If you join us, you will have your own double bedroom with private en-suite bathroom, TV (if required), stereo, and DVD player. We can also give you access to a laptop with wireless connectivity and a fully working Skype account (free telecalls Skype to Skype). We live in a lovely village called Cheam, close to Sutton in Surrey with excellent transport links into central London and other towns such as Wimbledon and Kingston-upon-Thames which are great for shopping and fun days out.We would send you our family pictures in subsequent correspondence and also hope to see yoursWe sincerely look forward to hearing from you.

Amigos, cuidado com os e-mails falsos.
Deus nos proteja!!!
Beijocas.

domingo, 25 de maio de 2008

E-mails falsos...Fake, Fake, Fake!

Já estava sentindo falta...
Quando eu pensava que eles haviam me tirado da listinha deles... lá vem dois de uma só vez.
Só para constar que as propostas são falsas, porque tem gente que demora a acreditar...

1º)

"Hello Aupair,
My name is Christiana and am an bussiness woman who travels all around the Europe,south America and Asia due to my type of buying and selling of goods and my Husband is a soldier and he is a busy man.and i cant leave my children all alone cos I'm of two kids.therefore i saw your post that you will like to be an Aupair and i will want to know where you are at present,your age and if you can start by May or June i will appreciate it I can even introduce you to my traveling agency in other to make your trip to the U.K a fast one if you are not in the U.K. My children are intelligent and they are twins nice kids,Angel Jenny they are 2 years old .I want you to be with them and take good care of them for about 6 months or above.I have a private apartment with internet and computer for you and private a car for you that you will use when you get over here and will want to know if you can drive well please.

All i need from you is trust and honesty.
Regards.
Christiana"


2º)

"Dear Nanny,
Looking for a female Au Pair. Our aupair will need to have to honest. Light housekeeping is required, and we will accept an aupair that lowyer.
We are looking for an au pair to help look after our 2 children. solo was born in Oct 2004 and jojo our new baby daughter was born in July 2007.
We both work in fairly demanding jobs, so are looking for help in getting the kids out to school and Creche (nursery shool) in the morning and then picking them up.
We are looking for someone who actually enjoys playing with the kids helping them grow and learn.
Making them dinner will also be needed as we typically get back from work around 6pm.
Light housekeeping is required, although we have a cleaning lady so it just to be with the kids after we have gone to work and i will like to know if a valid visa and work permit also if you dont have that please kindly email to this link(worldwideglobaltour@london.com)for your to obtain your necesstry document and let them know that you from our family okay hope to hear from you with your desition dont for get to get back to me fast for me to know the next steep.Your mounthly payment will be 2,000 pounds and weekly purcket money will be 300pounds for just if you want to get sothing deed for your self okay will be having your private room with TV/DVD/CD/with video game there if you are intrestin just get back to us on this Email..
Regards,
Rev. Julius"


Eu falei 2 e-mails??? Esquece, porque ainda tem o terceiro:

"Hello Aupair,
My Name is Engr.Dominic Padula, a computer software expert programmer resident in United Kingdom. My contact address is 30,Church St Billinghay, boston, Lincolnshire, LN3 2HN,United Kingdom.I work for a communications company in united state of America and am on call one week per month. My wife on the other hand will have varying work hours, but would be very considerate to your time as well. i just came back home from united state of America to spend some time with my family and i need an aupair before i went back.And my wife for the past year She have been a full-time student and mom, and have just recently graduated. She has just returned back to full-time work and feel as though my children would be best served by having a nanny or an aupair. We are looking for someone that we can treat as part of our family/friend and not just as a nanny/aupair. My wife and I are easy to get along with you, want to make you feel comfortable and at home and easy going, and down to earth.
The nature of my work makes me so busy and raising the kids as a parents is quite difficult. I will strongly need the services of an aupair. Like i said earlier i am a parent with two kids, their ages are 3 and 5 yrs and their names are wendy she is 3 years old and paul is 5 years old respectively. They are nice and respectful kids.
Facilities are made avaible to take them to school in the morning and back from school, also a cook is present in the house to make the meals at all times and a guest room is prepared for your arrival. I will be paying 1,000 pounds for every four weeks and a pocket money of 250 pounds per week for the buying of some things for your self .We would like our au pair/nanny to be a comfortable care giving partner/companion/sister who is caring, flexible, and will have fun with our family. Since my wife and I will not around until weekends, I would also love our au pair to go shopping with us, go out to eat with us, go to the movies with us, participate in family events, go on trips with us (we love going to amusement parks), share holidays with us, etc.--become a part of our family. We really want someone who will proactively talk, sing, laugh, interact, engage with the kids

And the working hour is just 7 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my Kids, them on shopping, taking them to the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home. And also you have a private room bathroom toilet, TV personal Computer and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable We are looking forward to the opportunity of meeting you and having you become a part of our happy family.

Thanks,
Engr.Dominic Padula"


Um abraço a todos

domingo, 4 de maio de 2008

Deu a louca na Ellen!

Rapidinho, rapidinho...Calma aí! Nem tão rapidinho... Deixa eu contar as novidades.
Já sabem do dia V, não é?! Estão torcendo por mim?!
Ai, ai, as vezes nem acredito. Na verdade, eu acredito sim! Eu tenho fé que está viagem está no coração de Deus para o meu coração. Tudo está saindo muito bem... as vezes rápido, as vezes um pouco mais lento, mas está tudo acontecendo.
Outro dia deu a louca no chapeuzinho...Ops! Deu a louca na Ellen mesmo!
Dá para acreditar que eu, Ellen Cristina, peguei uma tesoura e fiz uma franja em mim mesma?! Ééééééé verdade! Desespero mesmo! Por quê? Não sei se é genética, se é má alimentação ou tensão por causa do programa au pair, mas meu cabelo está caindo. Estou ficando "carequinha"... Ai, ai, só faltava isso. Tá, mas eu vou ao médico ver isso.
A verdade é que meu namorado não gostou muito. Em contrapartida, minha mãe adorou. E eu? Eu fiquei surpresa. Não sabia que tinha uma mão tão boa para corte de cabelos. Porque o corte ficou legal. Não dou 100%, mas 80% eu daria. E olha que foi minha primeira vez...segunda...(risos) Depois eu coloco uma foto do antes e do agora (só quando eu tiver muiiiiita coragem).
Também quero contar que estou saindo do Instituto Embelleze. Se tudo der certo, creio que segunda é meu último dia lá. Até que enfim! Eu quero vida! Preciso de vida! Eu amo meu estágio, mas está me consumindo demais. Não tenho um dia para mim. Trabalhar até domingo é dose...
Bom, acho que é só isso.
Ahhhh, antes que me esqueça, recebi mais 2 e-mails falsos.

1º:

"Hello,
I am Mr. Jim Lynch, 38 Years Old from United Kingdom, i'm a lawyer while my wife is a doctor. We are looking for an AuPair or Nanny that is flexible with our time. I will be paying you 150 pounds per week, Taking care of our 2 year old son, he is growing fast and has a very inquisitive mind. Be prepared for a lot of questions from our son. 5 hours work each day (Mon-Fri) Duties are mainly light housework (dusting/cleaning/tidying + some ironing) and taking to and from school, on days when I work, Monthly phone allowance. Own bedroom with TV, DVD. Broadband Internet available.
There is plenty of opportunity to learn English and see the sights of London. We believe in working hard but playing hard too and would welcome an aupair into our family making them feel at home, whilst they are away from their own home and family. Our boy jack (2yrs) is passionate about football and is a bright energetic boy, with a great sense of humor and fun. We have had our last aupair for 8 months, which should tell you something about how we treated her, and we all enjoyed the experience. We live in London, near enough to the center to be able to go regularly but far away enough for it to be calmer and greener with many parks nearby but still good shopping, cinema and other things to do. I look forward to your reply soonest
Regards

Jim Lynch"

2º:

"Hello Dear,

I am Mr. Thompson Wilington 49 Years Old, From United Kingdom. I work in a fabric company in United Kingdom and I don't usually stays home unless during weekends.

I will like you to know that I have just two kids which name is kelvin and priscilla. priscilla is a girl while Kelvin is a boy and they are just 4 years old and 3 years respectively. I want an Aupair nanny for them because they are the only one left at home after I got divorced with their Mum and she went with another Man.

I have an apartment room for he/she that would be taking care of the kids in my house. So I will like you to know that I will be paying you 3000 Pounds monthly and a pocket money of 200 POUNDS per week to buy varieties of things for your personal use. And the working hour is just 6 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my kids, cooking ,taking them on shopping ,taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home. And also you have a private master bedroom and also if you wish to be having free period is acceptable. So I will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being my aupair nanny for my kids and dont forget to provide me with your phone number. Here are what you will gain from me if you wish to work as a nanny for my kids.

1: Paying you 3000 Pounds monthly and 200 pounds for pocket money.
2: Having a private master bedroom.
3: Having free period
4: After when I see that you work very well I shall increase your salary.
5: Free access to the Internet
6: Access to my cars.

Hoping to hear from you soon

Mr. Thompson Wilington."

3000 pounds, dá para acreditar num e-mail deste?!! Só vivendo num conto de fadas!

Agora é só isso. Um abraço.

domingo, 23 de março de 2008

E-mails falsos

"Hello Good Dey,
I am Mr.Christopher Robinson ,From United kingdom.im divorce,I work in a fabric company in United Kingdom and i dont usually stays home unless during weekends.My contact address is : Anfield Road, Liverpool, L4 0TH . I will like you to know that i have just only 2 kid which name is John and paul they are just 3and 5 years old on the .I want an aupair nanny for them because they are the only one left at home when i go work , .And i have an apartment room for John and paul that would be taking care of them in our house.So i will like you to know that i will be paying you 1000 Pound for every four weeks and a pocket money of 200 POUND per week for the buying of some things for your self and i will also be responsible for some of the money for your traveling documents but you have to agree that you are the one to pay for your flight ticket to the traveling ticket agent.And the working hour is just 4 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my Kid, cooking ,taking him to shopping ,taking him to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.And also you have a private room batroom toilet and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are intrested in being my aupair nanny for my Kid and a serious aupair who is ready to work for me.So i hope to hear from you soon.
Chtristopher Robinson"


"Dear Aupair,
Au pair, Let me start by introducing my self ,Am Mr. Chuck Jones 35 Years Old, from United kingdom with my wife and kids, I work in a oil company in United Kingdom and i don't usually stays home unless during weekends.I do believe in God so much,what about you? My contact address is :28 Myrtle Street Liverpool L7 7JA UNITED KINGDOM I have just two kids for now and their names are Jane Brown and David Brown,One male and the other female 6 and 8 yrs respectively.I want a honesty caring and clean Aupair nanny for them because they are the only one left at home after me and their dad leave for work in the morning,I have an apartment room for he/she that would be taking care of my kids in my house and i will be paying you 300 POUND for per weeks and a pocket money of 100 POUND per week for the buying of some things for your self .You will be working 7 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my sons, cooking for them , i hope you know how to cook? also you will be taking them on shopping once in a while and also taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 1 km ahead from home.You will have a private room bathroom toilet and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6pm is acceptable.i hope you know how to cook? also you will be taking them on shopping once in a while and also taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 1 km ahead from home.You will have a private room bathroom toilet and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6pm is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being a nanny for my Kids and i do hope to hear from you soon on (jchuck.joness@gmail.com).
Regards"

domingo, 16 de março de 2008

+ e-mails falsos!!!

1º)

"Dear Au Pair,

HI! We are a fun family consists of an Au Pair to care for our 2 kids,Peter And Paul,eldest is Peter which is 4, And Paul which is just a year and some moth. I and my husband are busy working parents. We are looking for an enthusiastic, fun, friendly and kind au pair! We are easy going family living in London!

The safety and happiness of my children is my number one priority and it also needs to be yours. I'm looking for a female or a male au pair, ultra reliable, honest, and flexible and know how to play and have fun with children. You will have your own room - it's only one but there's a TV, video, DVD and CD in there.

You will have your own room and guaranteed your own privacy with food provided and pocket money. There will be plenty of free time for you to enjoy London and also make new friends and learn the English language.

My husband and i as promsie to give the best of education to any lucky au pair we will be having.

If you are interested and ready to take this responsibility and to experience life and education in the UK, please contact us. Leaving home is hard for anyone but we will welcome you into our home and look after you. We are ready to pay you 250 pounds every week, which we believe is ok by you inclduing pocket fee of 40 pounds per day.

We would love to hear from you soon!

Regards

Mrs. Ruth Harrison! "

2º)

"Dear Au pair,

I am Mrs fredricks lizzy,I am located In United Kingdom(Manchester city) am happily married and blessed with 2 kids. My husband's name is Joe who is a Scientist/researcher, names of my kids are Smith 3 years and Jennifa 5 years.
My kids are very intelligent and very cool.
I am a Accountant who works alot in other to achieve my objective in life. I am writing you this letter to know if you are willing to come to UK and take up an offer as aupair in my family,We live in a big House in the City. We are the owner our house which is duplex and as soon as you are taking up this offer we shall give you a room which you will have access to Internet,Television and car.
I will appreciate someone who is honest,trustworthy and understanding.
I will be expecting to have your response on how we shall proceed with you to come and leave with my family in UK.

Many Thanks,

Mrs fredrickslizzy"


3°)

"Hello Aupair Nanny,
I am Mrs Catrina James 37 Years Old, From Sussex England, United kingdom I work with Engineering Company here in the United Kingdom and i don't usually stays home only during weekends.My contact address is : 45 Gunner lane.Sussex England. I will like you to know that i have just two kids which name are Florie,and Ross and there ages are 6years and 4years old.I want an aupair nanny for them because there are the only one left at home after their father divorced me and he went with another woman.And i have an apartment room for he/she that would be taking care of the kids in my house.So i will like you to know that i will be paying you 1,200 Pounds for every four weeks and a pocket money of 350 Pounds per week for the buying of some things for your self .And the working hour is just 8 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my kids, cooking ,taking them on shopping ,taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.And also you have a private room bathroom toilet and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being my aupair nanny for my kids.
So i hope to hear from you soonest.
Here is my Email ID
catrinajames@live.com
Mrs Catrina James."

quarta-feira, 13 de fevereiro de 2008

Não caia no golpe de e-mails falsos

Olá amigos, saudades. Saudades de postar algo.
Gente, recebi 2 e-mails de pessoas que leram meu blog perguntando como sei se os convites que recebo são falsos.
Para quem não teve paciência de ler meus primeiros posters, que é onde eu narro uma experiência minha com um desses convites falsos, eu cheguei quase a cair num destes golpes. Só não caí porque Deus não permitiu com o auxílio de um amigo muito querido.
Comecei a observar as características destes e-mails e ficar mais atenta. Fiz, então, uma relação de 8 dicas para você ter certeza que o convite é falso. Na vida há muitas exceções, mas, sinceramente, não confie no e-mail que recebeu caso ele apresente estas características abaixo, porque é arriscar muito a sua vida por tão pouco.
Aí vão as dicas:

1- Observe se no e-mail convite está direcionado a você em exclusivo. Tenho reparado que nos e-mails falsos nunca vêm com o nome da pessoa. É muito comum eles começarem com "Hi/Hello there". Você pode reparar também que em todo o e-mail, eles não citam uma vez sequer seu nome.

2- O salário que estão lhe oferecendo está alto??? Geralmente eles oferecem em torno de 800 a 1500 Libras mensais, isso quando é convite para a Inglaterra. Não importa de onde seja o convite, quando receber a proposta, pesquise qual é a média salarial de uma au pair no país; se estiver muito acima, então a probabilidade de serem impostores é alta.

3- Observem os erros ortográficos e gramaticais do convite. Eles, na maioria das vezes, vêm cheios de erros. Qualquer um tem direito de cometer erros na escrita, mas existem erros que nenhum nativo que tem condições de sustentar uma au pair em sua casa cometeria.

4- Se tiver dúvidas, mostre o interesse pelo convite. Se no próximo e-mail vier contatos da "agência da família" para lhe dar suporte a conseguir o visto de "trabalho", então caia fora!!! Furada na certa!

5- Mostre interesse pela família...afinal, você tem que saber para quem vai trabalhar, que crianças vai cuidar. Faça perguntas sobre as crianças, suas personalidades, suas preferências, enfim, tudo que for possível para detalhar a família e suas características. Se for uma família impostora, ela não terá paciência para responder nada, ou então será tudo muito superficial; superficial mesmo!

6- Que tal pedir um contato maior com a família? Conversar pelo Messenger ou pelo Skype é uma ótima idéia. Eles evitam muito estes contatos diretos, principalmente se exigir uma conversa com webcam. Ou eles estão trabalhando muito, ou estão com o computador quebrado ou, simplesmente, desaparecem do mapa.

7- Recebeu foto da família? Então repare se estão juntos. Seja insaciável, volta e meia, peça mais fotos da família. Junto com as fotos, peça descrição da situação de uma forma que eles sempre tenham que repetir o nome da família, o local onde moram, enfim, detalhes. Já aconteceu comigo da mãe no e-mail convite dizer que o nome do menino era X e nas fotos citá-lo com Z. Perguntei o motivo, ela nunca respondeu.

8- Procure observar os endereços eletrônicos do remetente(o endereço do e-mail). Teve uma vez que recebi dois e-mails com propostas de au pair de um mesmo endereço eletrônico. Num a família se chamava A e com a história "blá-blá-blá". No dia seguinte, recebo do mesmo endereço eletrônico um convite com a história "blá-blá-blá", mas da família se chamava B. Foi muiiiiito vacilo deles, mas aconteceu, por incrível que pareça. Por isso, fique atento, isso também pode o ajudar a descartar uma proposta.


Espero que tenha ajudado de alguma forma.
Eu tenho mais dois e-mails falsos que recebi. Vou postá-los no próximo post. Aproveitem para analisar segundo as minhas dicas e tirem suas próprias conclusões.
Um abraço a todos.

terça-feira, 8 de janeiro de 2008

E-mails falsos - endereço não é segurança

Olá amigos,

Como prometido, eu vou publicar mais um tópico do "ABC do Programa Au Pair", mas quero deixar primeiro dois e-mails falsos que recebi.
Vamos aos e-mails falsos:

" HI! I am Mr. Penelope Wilson 38 Years Old,From usa.i am a Business man and I work in Car company in United Kingdom and i dont usually stays home unless during weekends.My contact address in London l63 Henrietta Street//Leigh/Lancs/WN7 1LH/UK. I will like you to know that i have just one kid which name is Lucsy Wilson 2 years old I want an aupair nanny for my kid because he is the only one left at home,and his mother is very busy woman . And i have an apartment room for he/she that would be taking care of my kid in the house.So i will like you to know that i will be paying you 800 pounds for every four weeks and a pocket money of 150 pounds per week for the buying of some things for your self and i will also be responsible for some of the money for your traveling documents but you have to agree that you are the one to pay for your flight ticket to the traveling ticket agent.And the working hour is just 7 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my Kid, cooking ,taking him on shopping ,taking him to the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.And also you have a private room batroom toilet, TV and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being my aupair nanny for my kid.So i hope to hear from you soon.My Wife is more introverted and enjoys listening to music. He is witty and entertaining and easy to get along with. He is respectful of others and only expects the same in return. It would be awesome if you had your own vehicle, but it's not necessary. We are willing to provide a car for your personal use if you pay for liabilty insuarnce. We can offer you an immaculate home with a private, fully furnished room (comfortable queen size bed). including your travel expenses, background check, overtime/comp time, bonus, and paid vacation. If our family sounds like a comfortable fit, we would love to hear from you soon!
Happy New Year and God Bless"

O segundo e-mail:
" Dear aupair,
I am a Air Pilot and i travel all around the europe due to my type of work and i am to resume at work anytime from now and i cant leave my children all alone cos i'm a (single parent) of two kids.therefore i saw your post that you will like to be an Au Pair in the i will want to know where you are at present,your age and if you can start by oct or early Nov i will appreciate it I can even introduce you to my travelling agency in other to make your trip to the U.K a fast one if you are not in the U.K.My children are inteligent and nice kids marry is 5(female),and 7( male)and jojo is I want you to be with them and take good care of them Help in carrying Help in carrying out light housework, eg dusting, vacuuming, ironing for about 6 months or above. All i need from is trust and honest So i will like you to know that i will be paying you (2500 POUND) for every four weeks and a pocket money of (500POUND) per week for the buying of some things for your self And also you have a private room bathroom toilet and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being my aupair nanny for my kids here my email - david_mark250@hotmail.com kindly let me know what was your intensoin okay.
So i hope to hear from you soon.
Mr David Mark,"

Andei reparando que muitos e-mails falsos estão vindo com endereço. Quero alertar que quando a família coloca o suposto endereço de sua residência, NÃO é a garantia de que seja uma família idônea ou verdadeira. Como exemplo, cito minha própria experiência, cuja a família enviou o endereço e, por coincidência, ou proteção divina, um amigo meu havia morado bem próximo da região e procurou averiguar com um outro amigo que continuava a morar no local o endereço me passado no e-mail. A resposta? Não havia nenhuma residência! Era uma rua totalmente comercial. E o número da suposta residência havia uma empresa de seguros. Portanto, não confie apenas no endereço. Não faça dele seu alicerce. Comece observando se no e-mail que te enviaram vem direcionado a você mesmo, ou seja, já vem citando seu nome. Caso contrário, nem vale a pena se iludir.
Bom, vou finalizar esta postagem para publicar a 2ª parte do "ABC do Programa de Au Pair"

Beijosss

domingo, 16 de dezembro de 2007

Uma bagagem de novidades!!!

Volteiiii!!! Tanto tempo sem escrever, não é? Mas estou aqui para todos que quiserem ler. Tanta coisa para relatar...Nem posso deixar de postar, porque quero reler meu passado...Olhar para trás e poder dizer "ainda esperança...eu passei por isso e sobrevivi...".
Ahhhh, vamos começar logo!!! Estou ansiosa!
Hummmm, por onde começar... Risos... Pelo que mais está me fazendo feliz!!!
Eiii, minha história com o Príncipe não terminou! Eu já sabia disso... É isso mesmo, nós voltamos! Tivemos uma conversa dentro do carro no nosso cantinho aqui do Rio e expomos todos nossos objetivos. Um dia antes, ele ligou para mim e pediu para pensar com carinho como poderíamos voltar, realizar nossas metas, sem sacrificar um ao outro. Ele foi tão sincero, o pedido foi tão intenso que eu não pude dormir em paz. Passei a noite pensando numa solução. E a encontrei! No dia seguinte eu pus para ele minhas sugestões e ele concordou. Quais foram elas??? Bom, o que foi acordado:
- Eu faço o programa de au pair em 2008, no máximo até o primeiro semestre para embarcar e fico até março/2009
- Nos casamos em maio/2009

Programa de au pair em 2008??? É isso mesmo! E não será mais para a Inglaterra. Preciso ir o mais rápido possível. O objetivo não é mais o mesmo...agora eu quero mais que tudo priorizar o inglês que conhecer a Inglaterra (meu grande sonho!).
Casamento??? Risos. Sim, CASAMENTO!!! E por que não?! Uma hora eu terei que passar por isso, já que encontrei a pessoa que me faz feliz. Passei por altos e baixos, eu cheguei a pensar que não o amava mais...que tola...nunca o deixei de amar. Quando longe...nossa, que falta me fazia! Como apertava aqui dentro...Mas agora passou, estamos noivos novamente!!! E com casamento marcado.
Voltando ao programa de au pair...me inscrevi na agência World Study. Fui em um dia com o Rafa pegar as informações, mas já estavam fechando a loja, não deu tempo. Voltei lá na sexta-feira (14/12) e fiz minha inscrição. Foi surpresa, porque na realidade, eu havia ido apenas para buscar informações de como fazer a inscrição, mas Rafael olhou para mim e perguntou: "Quer fazer a inscrição agora?". Olhei para ele e saíu: "Quero!" E assim foi!!! Que irônia o príncipe pagar, não? Tinha que ser príncipe mesmo!
Caramba, nem acredito! Fiquei toda boba... Fiquei pensando nisso o dia todo. No dia seguinte, não sei como, mas quando percebi, eu estava acordada orando em pensamento para que Deus me abençoasse.
E como fica minha mãe?! Sinceramente, ela nem sabe ainda... Não contei para ninguém. É segredo meu e do Rafa. Quando enviar o application e ele for aprovado, então eu conto para minha família. Não sei qual será a reação deles, mas com certeza, não dará para voltar atrás... Minha mãe quer tanto que eu case com o Rafa que tenho certeza que ela me apoiará sabendo que é para nosso bem. Também tenho certeza que ela ficará bem sem mim... tenho a observado muito esses dias. Dia 20/12 seria o aniversário da minha avó. Está chegando...vamos ver como ela passará por este dia. Fico confiante. Conversei com o Rafa e combinamos de contar tudo juntos.
E o processo do intercâmbio andando...
Estou trabalhando também!!! É verdade! Eu comecei em novembro... sou funcionária temporária numa loja de um shopping. Para quem conhece o Rio de Janeiro, eu estou trabalhando no Shopping Carioca como operadora de caixa. Minha primeira experiência como operadora de caixa... e tenho que confessar, eu não sou mais a mesma! Minhas mãos, que tanto tinha orgulho, estão tão feias... Não consigo deixar minhas unhas crescerem para pintá-las... tudo isso por causa do alarme que tenho que tirar das roupas. Mas não é só isso, está sendo ótimo porque eu estou lidando com o público, isso tem feito eu ficar menos inibida... Estou gostando...menos do horário! Eu pego de 14:00h às 22:00h e trabalho domingo sim domingo não. É muito cansativo e eu moro muito longe...chego em casa quase 01:00 da manhã. E as faculdades? Acredita que ainda estou tendo aula na facul de pedagogia??? Pois é...terminam nesta semana...E a faculdade de dança...nossa, quanto trabalho me deu!!! Quase dei um treco porque comecei a trabalhar sem antes ter terminado as aulas na faculdade de dança... tive que fazer provas no horário da manhã...sorte que estava na última semana.
Nesse meio tempo também fui assaltada pela primeira vez (e espero que seja a última!). Pois é...estava voltando do trabalho e, de repente, passa uma moto com 2 rapazes e leva minha bolsa. Aprendi que, ao menos a noite, temos que andar no sentido contrário do fluxo dos carros... Não vi arma, nem nada. Ainda tentei resistir, mas foi realmente difícil e eu acabei perdendo. Não levaram muita coisa, apenas meu celular (que era novo, mas adquirido numa promoção de 100 reais), minha carteira de motorista, meu CPF, cartão do banco e 7 reais. Sem dizer a blusa e o crachá do trabalho. Sabe, glorifiquei a Deus. "Em tudo dai graças". Ele sabe de todas as coisas... Nada escapa de seus olhos... Não fiquei nervosa, nem apavorada. Fiquei triste... Lembro que deixei uma mensagem no meu celular para eles quando cheguei em casa. Falei do amor de Deus e da oportunidade de conhecer Jesus Cristo como Senhor e Salvador...espero que tenham escutado antes de eu bloquear a conta do meu celular. Tudo já foi restituido...Deus me deu tudo de volta e um pouco mais! Ele é Pai...
Bom, para encerra, não poderia faltar os e-mails com propostas falsas de au pair.
Aqui está a primeira:

"Hello au pair
This is a Young family of (ages 40) with two cute boy and girl (4and 2). I work in an fabric company in United Kingdom and i dont usually stays home unless during weekends.My contact address is : 28 Ericmoore rd Mereyside london. We are active members in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Husband is attorney, wife is Real Estate agent.We Need help with some one how will help us watch the kid during day while we are at work.. Nice neighborhood, nice new home. Fun family, enjoys meeting new people, having fun activities together, traveling, etc. We Wants an Au Pair who will teach the family a foreign language,Looking forward to becoming good friends with an outgoing individual.I have an apartment room for he/she that would be taking care of my kids in my house and i will be paying you 1000 POUND for every four weeks and a pocket money of 150 POUND per week for the buying of some things for your self and i will also be responsible for some of the money for your flight ticket .And the working hour is just 8 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my kids, cooking ,taking them on shopping ,taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being my aupair nanny for my kids.So i hope to hear from you soon.
Thanks
simth ."

A segunda:

"Hi from Cherry Wright,

We have two Kids Nicki and little Ashton {2 and 8months old}…a young happy easy going family living in London!

Me and Steve are busy working parents. We are looking for an enthusiastic, fun, friendly and kind au pair to have the following responsibilities

- Minding Ashton on weekday afternoons (morning times, he will be in creche within walking distance from our house)

- The occasional babysitting duty at weekends.

- Helping to get ashton ready in the morning and prepare for bedtime

-Feeding meals

- Collecting him from creche and entertaining whilst teaching him new and fun things and helping him grow in a lovely home and environmentS

- Some light housework (ironing and or light cooking and general tidyness)

- Non smoking please

We offer accomdotaion in a 4 bed detached house in a very nice estate and close by to shopping centres, cinema, restaurants, church, creche, school etc! You will have your own room and guaranteed your own privacy with food provided and pocket money. There will be plenty of free time for you to enjoy London and also make new friends and learn the English language.

If you are interested and ready to take this responsibility and to experience life in the UK , please contact us. Leaving home is hard for anyone but we will welcome you into our home and look after you. We are ready
to pay you 200 pounds every week, which we
believe is ok by you?

We are looking forward to hear from you.

Regards

Mrs. Cherry Wright."

Amigos, falei demais...ou melhor, escrevi demais! Ainda estou com vontade de escrever sobre o processo de inscrição do programa do au pair, mas vou fazê-lo depois. Acreditem, é muita papelada da preencher...sentimentos a tona. As vezes me pego pensando: "Caramba, agora é para valer...". Pois é, mas depois escrevo tudinho aqui, ok?!

Deus o abençoe, e acredite, Ele é Pai e cuida dos seus filhos.

segunda-feira, 12 de novembro de 2007

Mais 2 e-mails com propostas falsas!

Ai, que saudades. Como eu sinto falta de escrever aqui!
Sabe, obtive resposta do meu e-mail com a Mom, na verdade, não foi através de outro e-mail, mas por uma conversa com ela pelo Messenger.
Eu não percebi que ela estava on-line, até que uma janela se abriu e era ela. Foi muito bom conversar com ela. Ela entendeu minha situação, mais uma vez mostrou-se carinhosa e compreensiva. Disse que estava ansiosa me esperando, mas que me apoiava em minha decisão sobre permanecer com minha mãe neste momento. Ela até me deu alguns conselhos... Disse também que gostaria muito de me conhecer algum dia...ai,ai, para falar a verdade, eu também. Ninguém é perfeito, mas acho que aquela família seria perfeita para mim...enfim... Ela continua em meus contatos do messenger e eu nos dela. Ela me envia algumas mensagens por e-mail muito bacanas também. Ela disse que não quer perder o contato comigo. Eu também nãããããão!!!
Agora falta avisar meu pai da minha escolha. Até agora não falei nada com ele sobre permanecer no Brasil por mais um ano. Quero terminar a faculdade, enquanto isso, o investimento da viagem ficará na poupança.

Mudando de assunto, eu recebi dois e-mails de propostas de posição de au pair muito suspeitos... vou postar aqui para entrar na nossa listinha negra (risos).
Aí estão:

" I am Mr. Marco Scott 38 Years Old,From Belguim has extensive travel behind us. We are looking for an AuPair or Nanny that is flexible with our time. I works for a communications company in United Kingdom and is on call one week per month. My wife on the other hand will have varying work hours, but would be very considerate to your time as well. For the past year She have been a full-time student and mom, and have just recently graduated. She have just returned back to full-time work and feel as though my children would be best served by having a nanny or an aupair. We are looking for someone that we can treat as part of our family/friend and not just as a nanny/aupair. my wife and I are easy to get along with you, want to make you feel comfortable and at home,like to act silly, are easy going, and down to earth. We would like our au pair/nanny to be a comfortable care giving partner/companion/sister who is caring, flexible, and will have fun with our family. Since my wife and i will not around untill weekends, I would also love our au pair to go shopping with us, go out to eat with us, go to the movies with us, participate in family events, go on trips with us (we love going to amusement parks), share holidays with us, etc.--become a part of our family. We really want someone who will proactively talk, sing, laugh, interact, engage with the kids Because i have 3 kids which name is Jen scott,David Scott and James Scott We would really enjoy a light-hearted, fun, and enthusiastic person who's ready for a neat American experience with a young, active family. We have an extremely supporting family here in the area, and the children's grandparents play very active roles in their lives.i will be paying you 800 Euros for every four weeks and a pocket money of 150Euros per week for the buying of some things for your self and i will also be responsible for some of the money for your traveling documents but you have to agree that you are the one to pay for your flight ticket to the traveling ticket agent.And the working hour is just 7 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my Kids,them on shopping ,taking them to the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.And also you have a private room bathroom toilet, TV personal Computer and also if you wish to be having free period from 5 pm to 6 pm is acceptable We are looking forward to the opportunity of meeting you and having you become a part of our happy family.
Thanks,
Mr,marco Scott"

O segundo é este aqui:

"Hello there,

My name is Dr Michael Balles 37 Years Old & I am a single parent to 2 children currently named Jen and Maxwelll and aged 4 & 6. Both of whom are in full time education. i work in Hospital in United Kingdom and i dont usually stays home unless during weekends,My contact address is : 28 Whitechapel High Street London. Both my children are unique & special in their own way. My son likes to play football & ride his bike. He also likes to be read to. My daughter likes to play on her bike too, as well as colour, & is very affectionate.

I have a very loving family & will welcome the right candidate & make them feel very welcome in my house. I am seeking an Au Pair who is honest, reliable, kind & considerate. I would like some English to be spoken, but am happy to provide & pay for an English course for the successful applicant.

I want an aupair nanny for them because they are the only one left at home after there Mother died in a motor accident.And i have an apartment room for he/she that would be taking care of the boy and girl in my house.So i will like you to know that i will be paying you 1000 POUND for every four weeks and a pocket money of 150POUND per week for the buying of some things for your self and i will also be responsible for some of the money for your traveling documents.

There is quite a lot of free time within the position - as both my children are at school during the day. This will provide a good opportunity for you to Study, should you wish to do so. You will have free board & lodgings which will include your own room. You will also have a TV, & computer access, so you can stay in contact with your family.

And the working hour is just 8 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my Kids, cooking ,taking them on shopping ,taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.
Please ld like the suitable applicant to before the ending of this month(november), & preferrably stay for between 6-12 months.i hope to hear from you soon.

Best of Regards,
Dr Michael Balles."

Amigos, isso é tudo por hoje.
Beijos.

segunda-feira, 15 de outubro de 2007

Feriadão maravilhoso

Que feriadãooooooooooo! Ahhhh, tudo que eu queria para justamente fazer NADA! Preguiçosa? Não, cansada mesmo! Quero dizer, estava né?! Porque hoje é o último dia do feriado. Dormi, estudei inglês, fui ao cinema ver Tropa de Elite ( aconselho a todos irem ao cinema assistí-lo), conversei com amigos na net, enfim, relaxei no feriadão. Tá certo que ainda tenho que fazer um fichamento de uma das disciplinas de dança, mas isso não é nada comparado ao NADA que eu fiz.
E aí, pessoinhas, espero que tenham curtido também. Bom, estou com novas. Para encher a nossa lista de e-mails falsos, hoje eu vou acrescentar o da Senhora Kristin Mc Murphy:

"Dear Au Pair,

You are warmly welcome to live with us !

We are a nice and easy family. We have two children, a 2 1/2 -year-old boy Matthew and a 11 month-old girl Mercy. They are very funny and happy to please. Me and my husband Franklin are busy working parents. We are looking for an enthusiastic, fun, friendly and kind au pair to have the following responsibilities We are easy going family living in London!

The Au Pair will have her own room with a small balcony, which looks out on beautiful mountains and their own bathroom. You will have a computer with Internet access. Once you get a valid Nevada drivers license and experience driving, you will have use of the car and a cell phone (you will be responsible for your personal calls), as well as all you can eat.There will be plenty of free time for you to enjoy London and also make new friends and learn the English
language

We ask our au pair to be flexible, but you will have plenty of time for yourself. Our son and daughter will be in preschool Mon-Fri from 8:00 until 12. Our Au Pair will generally be expected to take care of the children Monday to Friday from 7 am when they wake up, until we leave for school, around 8:15 am, then again from 2:30 until 7 pm or so and from 7 am until 6 pm on Saturday with a two hour break during the day or a half day on Sunday occasionally. . We require a night out each week and schedule your hours so that we can. You never work more than 45 hours a week, unless we compensate you. We are happy to work around your schedule if you work around ours. You will have one and a half days off each week, as well as at least one weekend a month.

Your duties for the children would be to get them up in the mornings, get the children ready for school, prepare snacks, play with them, help with their meals, as well as bedtime rituals such
as bath. Most of all we want our au pair to be patient, kind and energetic and play, play, play.

We want someone who will be a part of the family and really pitch in when needed. There would also be a lot of free time since we are always around. I take the kids to a lot of activities during the week, which would give the au pair free time that is not in the general description above. For example, Friday afternoons I take the kids to soccer from 3:30 until 5 pm.

My husband is English and I am American. My husband works from home and I only work part-time from home. We have both lived a great deal of time in other countries and enjoy traveling. I was an au pair in Paris when I was a young girl so I understand the great advantages and would like to make this a memorable experience for our au pair.

We are ready to pay you 200 pounds every week, which we believe is ok by you?

We would love to hear from you soon!

Regards

Mrs. Kristin Mc Murphy!"

É impressionante como os e-mails têm sempre as mesmas características! Ô povinho sem imaginação!
Agora falando da minha situação. Ai, meu Deus, como está difícil falar com a minha host mom. Ela estava com o computador ruim devido a vírus e agora que consertou a gente não consegue se encontrar. Quando eu estou ela não aparece, quando ela aparece eu acabei de sair da net!!! Engraçado foi ontem, fiquei o dia todo esperando por ela, até que de noite decidi sair. Meia hora depois eu volto só na curiosidade e encontro um " Where are you? X". Dá para acreditar? Estou esperando resposta dela para saber quanto a escola, se vai ser aquela ou não que eu indiquei a ela. Isso tudo para pedir o visto. Ai, ai!!! Aliás, já estamos em OUTUBRO!!! E eu quero ir antes do Natal! Estou tendo que ter muita paciência...tem que ter, não podemos ser afobados, enfim, hoje vou deixar o computador o dia todo on-line com a caixa de som no último volume, caso ela me chame e eu não esteja por perto.
Gente, mas não é só isso. Vim deixar aqui um blog muito interessante que eu encontrei na net. Ele parece estar desativado, mas tem muitas informações bacanas que podem ajudar muita gente. Então vai a dica, e endereço do blog é: http://carol-mp.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!E64C70D5A0162BB1!832.entry
Olha, quem tiver blog e quiser deixar aqui o endereço publicado é só passar para mim. Também vale para sites bacanas.
Bom, acho que é só... Vou passar na academia agora para queimar as gordurinhas extras adquiridas devido ao feriadão. Ainda bem que minha academia abre hoje...risos.
Só mais uma coisa, outro dia eu estava relendo minhas postagens e percebi um monte de erros de português. Peço desculpas e por favor sejam tolerantes, muitas vezes escrevo quase dormindo...
8 abraços a todos.

domingo, 7 de outubro de 2007

Promessa paga! E mais um e-mail falso...

Meu quarto está todo bagunçado e eu estou morrendo de sono, contudo, aqui estou!!!
Vamos começar pela promessa?! Menos uma na minha conta, isso porque eu já tirei minha carteirinha de alberguista! AÊÊÊÊÊÊ!!! É isso aí... eu não sei como é que funciona quando se pede através da net, mas quando vai a uma das lojas da STB o processo é "pá-pum", ou seja, rapidinho! É na hora, ou melhor ainda, em torno de 15 minutos. Pois bem, perguntei se tem tempo de carência para poder usar a carteirinha e começar a usufruir dos benefícios. A resposta: Nadinha, já pode ser usada! Cumprida promessa!
Outro tópico super-conhecido nosso: e-mails falsos com convites para ser au pair... Novidade, né?! Pois é nenhuma, eles acabam sempre reaparecendo... Vou copiar e colar o e-mail aí embaixo.

"I am Mr. Greg Wilson 41 Years Old,From UK(London).I work in a construction company and i own it and am a very busy man and i dont always have so much time except on weekends when am off work.My contact address is : 14 chattam place concord london. I will like you to know that i have 2 children and they are my life and my treasures and cannot be measured sarah and peter they are both boy and Girl they are just 4 and 6 years old Respectively.I need a fun friendly aupair to play with them and enjoy them because they are the only one left at home after i had a divorce with their mother.And i have an apartment room for you that would be taking care of the boy and girl in my house.,So i will like you to know that i will be paying you 900 BRITHISH POUND monthly,and a pocket money of 100 BRITHISH POUND per week for the buying of some things for your self.And you would be off on weekends because i like to spend time with them because i would be off work.And the working hour is just 8 hours per day and your responsibility in my house is just to take care of my kids, cooking ,taking them on shopping ,taking them to where the school bus will pick them up from which is just 2 km ahead from home.And also you have a private room bathroom toilet,free internet facilities and also if you wish to be having free period,we can discuss on that, is acceptable.So i will like you to get back to me if you are interested in being my
aupair nanny for my boy and girl and I don't expect experience with children - but i would expect you to love and play with them and treat them like your own even in presence and absence.Here is my email greg_wilson40@hotmail.com or greg_wilson040@yahoo.com get back to me as soon as possible so I will know where to start and my kids will be very happy to have you as there nanny So i hope to hear from you soon
Regards
Greg Wilson
n.b
add me on yahoo and msn
greg_wilson040@yahoo.com
greg_wilson40@hotmail.com "

Observaram que ele deixou o endereço dele do Messenger para ser adicionado. E eu? Eu adicionei, né?! Curiosa como sou...E ele apareceu. Abaixo está nossa conversa...fiz questão de salvá-la só para apresentar aqui para vocês lerem. Aí vai:

"Ellen Cristina diz (20:07):
olá
Talvez impostor diz (20:08):
ow are you?
Talvez impostor diz (20:08):
and wat is your name?
Ellen Cristina diz (20:08):
Hi, my name is Ellen
Talvez impostor diz (20:09):
ok
Talvez impostor diz (20:09):
where are you from?
Ellen Cristina diz (20:09):
Ei
Ellen Cristina diz (20:10):
you sent me a invite
Ellen Cristina diz (20:10):
an invite
Talvez impostor diz (20:10):
yes
Talvez impostor diz (20:10):
are you interested in the offer?
Ellen Cristina diz (20:10):
how could you invite me if you dont know my name?
Talvez impostor diz (20:11):
i sent you an email
Talvez impostor diz (20:11):
that i need an aupair
Talvez impostor diz (20:11):
if you are interested let me know?
Ellen Cristina diz (20:14):
I am sorry, but you didnt answer me
Talvez impostor diz (20:14):
i didnt?
Ellen Cristina diz (20:15):
no
Talvez impostor diz (20:15):
am sorry
Talvez impostor diz (20:15):
been busy
Ellen Cristina diz (20:15):
how could you invite me if you dont know my name?
Talvez impostor diz (20:15):
so are you interested?
Talvez impostor diz (20:16):
see
Talvez impostor diz (20:16):
i saw your email on te aupair site
Talvez impostor diz (20:16):
and i decided to email you
Talvez impostor diz (20:16):
wats with the name thing?
Ellen Cristina diz (20:16):
if you dont know... neither do I
Ellen Cristina diz (20:17):
I am sorry
Ellen Cristina diz (20:17):
I am not interested
Talvez impostor diz (20:17):
ok
Talvez impostor diz (20:17):
bye
Ellen Cristina diz (20:18):
bye"

Reparem que eu o cumprimentei em português para saber se ele falava nossa língua, mas pelo jeito ele não caíu ou realmente não é oriundo de país que fale o português. Também fui direta ao perguntar como pederia ser capaz de convidar alguém para cuidar dos filhos dele sem nem ao menos saber o nome da pessoa... "Eu achei seu e-mail em um site de au pair" (lógico que foi em um site de au pair!!! Dã!!!)... "qual o nome do site mesmo?" (até parece que eu iria dizer... hahaha, bobinho!) foram respostas estúpidas!!! Mas quem está afobado em ser logo au pair e encontrar uma família pode até cair nessa... por isso, MUITA PACIÊNCIA para fazer as coisas na maior segurança possível!
Amigos, por hoje é só. Acho que fiz minha parte.( A verdade é que estou m-o-r-r-e-n-d-o de sono).

Nunca desista de sonhar e de torná-lo realidade...faz parte da essência humana. Apenas convide Jesus para sonhar e torná-lo real em sua vida. Você verá o quão mais fácil fica quando se tem uma amigo tão unipotente para apoiá-lo.

Uma semana cheia de vitórias!!!